Untangling the UN-me

At the moment.... I believe: that the hardest part of being a Womyn is also what makes the awesome beings we are. We are amazing, insightful, caring and most importantly (most of us) are nurturing, empathetic beings. And that my friend is the problem. We feel SO much that sometimes the lines of what is ours and what is another's gets mixed. And we Womyn end up overloaded and exhausted. When we finally get that moment for some soul searching- we realize that much of our crap isn't ours. It is what we have taken on from our partners, parents, children, society... The list goes on and on.

So now the hard part, how to untangle all that is ME: Womyn- and all that is the inherited crap.

That is where *I* am right now.


How do you unload? Unclench? It can be rhetorical or I would love to hear your experience- publicly or privately.